tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5369380611712720325.post2385135213331576854..comments2023-12-21T04:26:07.285-05:00Comments on thetruthaccordingtotrey: The Hurt, Confusion & Disappointment of My Adoption ProcessBrittneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15895407131323650614noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5369380611712720325.post-91663867089480968812013-05-21T09:36:53.438-04:002013-05-21T09:36:53.438-04:00I am sorry to hear about your struggle coming so c...I am sorry to hear about your struggle coming so close to something and then not being able have it is very hard. I understand the emotion of wanting a child so much and not being able to control when you can be blessed with your own. <br />Thank you for being so raw and open. I can't wait to see what project is birthed out of this experienceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5369380611712720325.post-22921258369483930242013-05-20T16:03:44.798-04:002013-05-20T16:03:44.798-04:00Break something...find an open space and scream at...Break something...find an open space and scream at the top of your lungs...sorry that you are in so much pain luv.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16929518195401412760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5369380611712720325.post-53543902845303064252013-05-20T15:15:49.933-04:002013-05-20T15:15:49.933-04:00What is that old saying sometimes you face a wall ...What is that old saying sometimes you face a wall to see how much you really want it. Not to belittle your feelings but this is just another wall. <br />Based on the little I know of you, this is a small blip. You are a fighter. Take a minute and regroup emotionally. Then forget the big girl panties and go get your sledgehammer.Sunnyhttp://lifeisfullofsunnydays.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5369380611712720325.post-66257553124319781632013-05-20T14:00:06.417-04:002013-05-20T14:00:06.417-04:00Trey, thank you for your honesty. I feel your pain...Trey, thank you for your honesty. I feel your pain, and, I agree, too often women are not encouraged to feel their pain or joy or sorrow thinking it might engulf them, but I feel the opposite is true. What you do not allow yourself to feel will resurface as depression or malaise..its necessary to feel the disappointment and just sit with the grief.it will shift and change as you allow your feelings to move through your body.as far as having to redo your paperwork, perhaps as the previous comment suggested ,it is a chance for you to do it differently, or..perhaps this is the universe telling you that now is not the right time for you to bring a child into your life..not just now..maybe you need to take a sabbatical and return refreshed and renewed and ready to bring that baby home.angelovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206148428617104123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5369380611712720325.post-68561826015000242242013-05-20T11:37:08.249-04:002013-05-20T11:37:08.249-04:00Hey Trey, I'm so sorry to read about the strug...Hey Trey, I'm so sorry to read about the struggles that you are facing. I am a believer, and the Word says that He will not give us more than we can handle. You've gotten this far. And it isn't for nothing! Press on! You mentioned that there were *personal* reasons for which the application was denied. Without going into details, perhaps this is a 2nd chance, in the sense that you can do things differently. Not to say that you did anything wrong to begin with, but rarely do people get a 2nd chance at a first impression. You do not need to apologize for feeling what you are feeling; I've never been in that situation, and it cannot be easy. Afterwards, do what you do very well, and persist. Persevere. Then embrace the opportunity! God bless you & all the best! Tanya EJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00557812161797107608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5369380611712720325.post-35891501077863884142013-05-20T09:31:56.789-04:002013-05-20T09:31:56.789-04:00Trey, I felt all of your emotions coming through s...Trey, I felt all of your emotions coming through strong. I'm trying to find the words that may find you some comfort and I don't think there are any except, cry if you have to and let it cleanse you as the fight is not over. That's what we as womyn/mothers do, we fight. Linette Ballantynehttp://www.facebook.com/lpballantynenoreply@blogger.com